As I write this article, I honestly ask myself if I could ever have thought of the above topic ten years ago talk less of writing it for the whole world to see. I am sure if I mentioned it to my mum that I didn’t want to use a veil for my wedding, she would have slapped that ‘nonsense’ out of me. But these days, some brides are choosing to skip the veil in their ensemble and those who do have taken the humble veil to record breaking lengths, breadths and may I add costs. Can you imagine a wedding veil weighing the equivalent weight of the little bride?
Traditionally, veils have been a symbol of youth, modesty and purity and were thought to ward off evil in ancient times. Some say that the veil shows a bride’s willingness to obey her husband.
Whether you decide to wear a veil or not, here is my advice for all prospective brides.
Veil length
Veils can be long, short or medium in length and vary from a single layer blusher style worn over the face, to a long cathedral length design worn down the back of the dress and over the length of the train. It is best to experiment with lengths and types as well as embellishments such as stones, flowers, lace material and even flowers till you create your own signature veil that would suit your gown as well as express your personality.
To wear or no to wear?
Veils should be treated as an optional extra; there are no strict rules about wearing a veil. Some brides like to have their hair styled in a glamorous up do, which can often mean that the best position for the veil is at the back of the head beneath the up do. Whatever hairstyle a bride wears she needs to ensure that the veil is higher on her crown rather than low just above the neck as it will ease in lifting the veil over her head.
When to lift the veil
The veil is usually lifted after the vows have been exchanged and the couple has been pronounced ‘man and wife’. These days, it’s the brides choice. Sometimes the bride would decide that her father will lift the veil after they have reached the top of the altar and before the ceremony begins, alternatively, some brides prefer the groom to lift the veil.
The wedding gown
This depends on the cut of the gown, the detail on the fabric, the bride’s personality and how long she intends to wear it. For example, if it is a simple gown with minimum detail, the bride may opt for a long flowing veil with crystal or diamante detail for a nice complementing contrast between both of them. For an intricate and embellished gown , a plain short veil would work. Either way, it is important to avoid a veil and dress combination that both vie for attention, your aim is to create a harmonious balance between the two.
Your colours
When choosing a veil, it is important that it matches not just the colour but the shade of your gown for a holistic look. The best way to do this is to hold your veil close to your dress and check. If you are feeling adventurous, you could match the veil to one of your colours (gown, flowers, jewellery, shoes) provided that it is a soft and light hue.
Although there are no set rules regarding veils and dress, a bride should not go overboard with excessive detailing and colour riot. To prevent this, consider all aspects of the wedding from the decor to your groom.One last thing, I have one rule that must not be broken by any bride and that is your wedding is meant to be a once in a lifetime affair therefore choose MR RIGHT carefully and ENJOY the special day!
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Date Added: Feb 25, 2010;
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